A Choice To Make

Once the confrontation has taken place, and you have now verified an affair has taken place or is still occurring, the two of you have an option to make.  You can make a decision to work on the problem together with the assistance of a marriage counselor, or stop the marriage. 

Sadly, people do make mistakes, sometimes, very bad mistakes.  The thing to remember during the confrontation with your cheating spouse is that after you have presented the “evidence”, there is no need to plant it into the ground. Get practical. Look at your finances, housing situation, transportation, etc. If you do decide to stop your marriage, make certain you have thought out where you will live, if you have enough money to pay for your essentials, etc.